On a good day, you can probably think of all sorts of things people love about you. Your kindness. Your sense of humor. Your little quirks. Your loyalty. Your passion. None of us may be perfect, but we all bring cool and unique things to our relationships. And when we’re at the top of our game, it’s easy to love ourselves and see why others love us. And let’s be honest… those are some of the best feelings in the world.
On a bad day, you might feel completely unlovable. At our worst, it’s hard to remember what makes us special. I know that I have days like this, and it’s hard for me to remember why people may love me. These days are luckily pretty far and few between, but they still happen.
It’s funny how feeling lovable or unlovable can perpetuate more of the same. When you feel worthy of love, more people love you freely. But when you feel unworthy of love, it’s hard to get the love you crave so dearly. When we feel unworthy of love, we are still lovable – but we may push others away and not get the love we need. I know that we are all deserving of love, even if we don’t always feel that way.
The great thing about love is that people love us for the best reasons. True love is not based on status, looks, favor, or money. When writing my latest quiz, I thought of the reasons I love others. Some of the things that came to me were kindness, openness, wit, and dependability. And I have a feeling that you probably love others for similar (if not the exact same reasons).
So if you’re feeling less than lovable, think about what I discovered. Are you kind, open, witty, or dependable? If you’re having a bad day, you may not consider yourself to be any of these things. And that’s fine. But do you aspire to be any of them? I bet you do, and that’s where we’re getting to the root of your lovability.
The newest quiz I wrote, What Do People Love About You?, is for good days, bad days, and in between days. Take a few minutes to remember why you’re loved. This quiz will show you how you’re lovable, even if you don’t feel like you should be loved right now. It’s a great quiz for anyone, but it’s especially good for anyone who is feeling flawed.
What Do People Love About You? helps you discover what people cherish about you. You might be surprised to learn what makes you lovable. No matter what, you are lovable – and probably much more lovable than you think. Take this quiz to find out why others love you. Give it a go, and let me know what you think of your result. Can you see why people love you? Comment below with your result.